Taking a solo trip to Japan was one of the most courageous and rewarding experiences of my life. It wasn’t just about exploring a new country—it was an opportunity to connect with myself in ways that everyday life rarely allows.
For women in their 40s, particularly those who are navigating life outside the norm, solo travel can be both liberating and grounding. Here’s why time alone matters, and some tips on how to make the most of a solo travel adventure.
When we think about relationships, our focus often goes to those with family, friends, or partners. However, our relationship with ourselves sets the foundation for all our connections. Just like the safety instructions on an airplane tell us to put our oxygen mask on first, cultivating self-awareness and self-compassion allows us to show up more fully in relationships with others. Knowing who we are—our values, desires, and boundaries—empowers us to interact more authentically.
In a world filled with distractions, spending intentional time alone can help us tune into our needs and gain clarity on what truly matters to us. We may often mistake being alone for loneliness or feel uncomfortable with solitude, but solo experiences encourage us to look inward and develop a stronger sense of self-worth and resilience. This was particularly true for me in Japan, where I discovered a sense of peace and confidence that I hadn’t accessed before.
If you’re considering solo travel, here are some things to keep in mind to make the experience both fulfilling and safe:
Here are a few ways to fully embrace and enjoy solo travel:
Ultimately, solo travel is about honouring the relationship with yourself. Spending time alone teaches us resilience, self-compassion, and clarity, helping us grow into the best versions of ourselves.
It’s about realising that you can be your own best friend, and that life can be uniquely fulfilling, no matter how different it looks. So, if you’re on the fence, take the leap—adventure and self-discovery await!
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